The Bible teaches that respect within the family is foundational to love, harmony, and spiritual growth. Exodus 20:12 (GW) – “Honor your father and your mother so that you may live for a long time in the land the Lord your God is giving you.” Proverbs 22:6 (GW) – “Train a child in the way he should go, and even when he is old he will not turn away from it.” 1 Corinthians 1:10 (GW) – “Brothers and sisters, I encourage all of you in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ to agree with each other and not to split into opposing groups. I want you to be united in your understanding and opinions.” Psalm 133:1 (GW) – “See how good and pleasant it is when brothers and sisters live together in harmony!” Galatians 5:22–23 (GW) – “But the spiritual nature produces love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There are no laws against things like that.” 1 Timothy 5:8 (GW) – “If anyone doesn’t take care of his own relatives, especially his immediate family, he has denied the Christian faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” God is described as “faithful and true” (Deuteronomy 32:4). Families that practice honesty mirror His character and invite His blessing.
WE MUST LOVE OUR FAMILY AND TREAT THEM WITH RESPECT.
(I’VE HAD A NUMBER OF PEOPLE ASK ME TO TEACH ABOUT SUICIDE.) From a biblical perspective, the question of whether suicide prevents someone from going to heaven is not directly answered in Scripture. However, here are a few key themes that many Christians consider when wrestling with this: Salvation Is by Grace, Not by Works • Ephesians 2:8–9 (GOD’S WORD Translation): “God saved you through faith as an act of kindness. You had nothing to do with it. Being saved is a gift from God, not the result of your own efforts.” • Salvation is based on faith in Jesus Christ, not on the final act of a person’s life. Many believe that if someone has truly trusted in Christ, that salvation is secure—even if their life ends in tragedy. Suicide Is Not God’s Will • Scripture affirms the value of life and calls believers to endure suffering with hope: • “You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book.” — Psalm 139:16 • “Don’t be afraid, because I am with you. Don’t be intimidated; I am your God.” — Isaiah 41:10 • Suicide is often the result of overwhelming pain, mental illness, or despair—not a rejection of God. God’s Mercy Is Greater Than Our Weakness • Romans 8:38–39 says that “nothing can separate us from God’s love—not death, life, angels, or rulers…” • Many Christians believe that even in moments of deep suffering, God’s grace can reach a person. God Knows the Heart • Only God sees the full picture—our pain, our intentions, our faith. “The Lord looks into the heart.” — 1 Samuel 16:7 What Does the Bible Say About Suicide? While the Bible doesn’t directly mention suicide as a doctrinal issue, it does record several instances: • Saul (1 Samuel 31:4–5): After being wounded in battle, Saul took his own life. • Ahithophel (2 Samuel 17:23): After his advice was rejected, he hanged himself. • Samson (Judges 16:29–30): He died by collapsing a building on himself and others—some view this as sacrificial, others as suicidal. • Judas Iscariot (Matthew 27:5): After betraying Jesus, he hanged himself. None of these passages include commentary on eternal destiny. The Bible doesn’t declare suicide as an unforgivable sin—but it does affirm the sanctity of life and God’s mercy. Is Suicide the “Unforgivable Sin”? Some traditions have taught that suicide is unforgivable because it’s a sin that cannot be repented of. But this view isn’t supported by Scripture: • Romans 8:1 — “So those who are believers in Christ Jesus can no longer be condemned.” • John 10:28 — “I give them eternal life, and they will never be lost. No one will tear them away from me.” • Hebrews 7:25 — “He is always able to save those who come to God through him.” The only sin described as “unforgivable” is blasphemy against the Holy Spirit (Matthew 12:31–32), which involves a hardened, persistent rejection of God’s grace—not a moment of despair. What About Mental Illness and Despair? Many suicides occur under the weight of mental illness, trauma, or hopelessness. These are not signs of rebellion—they’re signs of suffering. • Psalm 34:18 — “The Lord is near to those whose hearts are humble. He saves those whose spirits are crushed.” • 1 Kings 19:4–8 — Elijah begged God to take his life, but God responded with rest, nourishment, and gentle presence. God sees the whole person—their pain, their story, their faith. He is not quick to condemn. He is slow to anger and rich in mercy (Exodus 34:6). What Is Our Hope? If someone has trusted in Christ, their salvation is secure—even if their life ends in tragedy. God’s grace is not fragile. • 2 Timothy 2:13 — “If we are unfaithful, he remains faithful because he cannot be untrue to himself.” • Romans 5:20 — “Where sin increased, God’s kindness increased even more.” How Should We Respond? If you’re concern for someone—or for yourself—please know: • You are not alone. • Your life has immeasurable worth. • God’s love is deeper than your pain. • There are people who want to walk with you—pastors, counselors, friends, and crisis teams.
I HOPE YOU FOUND THIS DEEP STUDY TO BE HELPFUL. SHOULD WE CONTINUE OUR DEEP STUDIES?
Matthew 4:6 He said to Jesus, “If you are the Son of God, jump! Scripture says, ‘He will put his angels in charge of you. They will carry you in their hands so that you never hit your foot against a rock’” Luke 4:9–11 Then the devil took him into Jerusalem and had him stand on the highest part of the temple. He said to Jesus, “If you are the Son of God, jump from here! Scripture says, ‘He will put his angels in charge of you to watch over you carefully. They will carry you in their hands so that you never hit your foot against a rock.’ ” The devil can cite Scripture for his purpose.
Psalm 68:6 “God places lonely people in families. He leads prisoners out of prison into productive lives, but rebellious people must live in an unproductive land.” Freedom for the oppressed: “He leads prisoners out of prison into productive lives” speaks of liberation—not only literal release from captivity, but also freedom from spiritual, emotional, or social bondage. It’s a picture of transformation and purpose. Judgment for the rebellious: “Rebellious people must live in an unproductive land” contrasts God’s blessings with the consequences of resisting Him. The “dry land” symbolizes spiritual barrenness, isolation, and lack of fruitfulness. If you feel alone, this verse reminds you that God sees you and desires to place you in a nurturing community. If you feel trapped—by circumstances, habits, or fears—God offers freedom and a fruitful life. It also calls for humility and surrender, warning that rebellion leads to spiritual dryness. Psalm 27:10 – “Even if my father and mother abandon me, the LORD will take care of me.” Galatians 5:1 – “Christ has freed us so that we may enjoy the benefits of freedom. Isaiah 30:15–16 – God offers rest and salvation, but rebellion leads to ruin.
I HOPE YOU ENJOYED THIS QUICK REFRESHER. PASTOR ANDRA HIGGINBOTHAM
Jeremiah 33:6 Behold, I will bring to it health and healing, and I will heal them; and I will reveal to them an abundance of peace and truth. Psalm 30:2 O Lord my God, I cried to You for help, and You healed me. Psalm 107:20 He sent His word and healed them, And delivered them from their destructions. Exodus 15:26 And He said, “If you will give earnest heed to the voice of the Lord your God, and do what is right in His sight, and give ear to His commandments, and keep all His statutes, I will put none of the diseases on you which I have put on the Egyptians; for I, the Lord, am your healer.” Job 5:18 “For He inflicts pain, and gives relief; He wounds, and His hands also heal.
DO NOT LIVE YOUR LIFE IN A WAY THAT WILL CAUSE GOD TO INFLICT PAIN UPON YOU. LIVE YOUR LIFE IN A WAY THAT WHEN YOU PRAY UNTO GOD FOR HEALING, HE WILL HEAR YOUR PRAYER AND SEND HEALING. OUR GOD IS A HEALER. OUR GOD BLESSES THE RIGHTEOUS.
Psalm 46:1 “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in times of trouble.” Refuge: God is described as a safe place, a shelter from danger or distress. This evokes the image of a fortress or sanctuary where one can find peace and protection. Strength: He is not only a place of safety but also the source of power and endurance. This implies that in our weakness, God provides the strength we need. Ever-present Help: The phrase emphasizes immediacy and reliability. God is not distant or delayed—He is always available, especially in times of trouble. Isaiah 41:10 (GW) – “Don’t be afraid, because I am with you. Don’t be intimidated; I am your God. I will strengthen you. I will help you. I will support you with my victorious right hand.” Nahum 1:7 (GW) – “The Lord is good. He is a fortress in the day of trouble. He knows those who seek shelter in him.” Psalm 91:2 (GW) – “I will say to the Lord, ‘You are my refuge and my fortress, my God in whom I trust.’” Hebrews 13:5–6 (GW) – “…God has said, ‘I will never abandon you or leave you.’ So we can confidently say, ‘The Lord is my helper. I will not be afraid. What can mortals do to me?’”
OUR STRENGTH IS IN GOD. OUR SAFETY IS IN GOD. GOD IS OUR HELPER. OUR GOD IS WITH US. WE CAN DEPEND ON GOD.
1 Chronicles 16:34 Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever. Psalm 145:17 The Lord is righteous in all his ways and faithful in all he does. Proverbs 2:8 For he guards the course of the just and protects the way of his faithful ones. Colossians 4:2 “Continue to pray and be alert as you give thanks.” Ephesians 5:20 Always thank God the Father for everything in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Psalm 34:1 I will thank the Lord at all times. My mouth will always praise him. 2 Cor 9:15 I thank God for his gift that words cannot describe.
LET US REMEMBER TO GIVE GOD THANKS. IF WE LOVE GOD WE WILL GIVE HIM THANKS.
